January 29, 2012
Can I tell you a little secret? I'm a better homemaker than I am homeschooler.

Homeschooling, for us, is the foundation of a life time of learning. It's not the be-all, end-all of our childrens' education, it's just the beginning.
I like what Natalia quoted in comments in An Open Hearted Letter to Moms of Young Children, and it's so true.
Many people overestimate what they can get done in a day, and underestimate what they can get done in a year.
Raising my hand to the truth of that in my own life - especially when it comes to thinking I can be a super-productive homemaker and homeschooler, day in and day out.

When push comes to shove, when there is a time crunch in our life and I have to choose between taking care of the homefront or doing a history/spelling/writing lesson with the kids, I choose homemaking.
The biggest reason for this is because we have to eat and we believe good food is the most basic element of health and well being. Someone has to do the cooking (and the shopping and the sourcing) and in our household arrangement, that's mostly me. The reality of that is sometimes I spend a lot of time in the kitchen.

So there's kitchen duty, which admittedly I spend less time doing these days since Damien does clean-up and I don't cook breakfast. But there's also everything else. You know the mess and management of life, compounded by unexpected (or even expected) transitions and upheaval. Sometimes something has to give. For me, it's school. Always has been.

There's a reason I usually introduce myself, in writing and in person, as a homemaker and homeschooler. Home life comes first.
Cultivating a home environment of peace over productivity (oh I do love that post of Jamie's), nourishing my family with whole foods and love, taking care of our home so there's an environment conducive to learning and open to ideas - these always come first for me.

And I call myself a homeschool coach (smile).
On those days (or weeks) when I need to focus on home management we fall back to a barebones homeschool routine.
There are times we take complete and seasonal breaks. Barebones homeschool isn't a full blown break but it gives me a bit of extra time in my days to take care of home stuff.

We had a barebones homeschool routine for the past two weeks. This is what that looks like for our family of late elementary and middle years learners.

In short, a barebones day has a bit of math, a lot of self directed learning, some media and always, reading.