September 20, 2010
Last week we resumed our morning school routine after taking three weeks off at the end of summer school. During summer, my goal was to stick to a light schedule that would, at bare minimum, keep up the kid's basic math proficiency and writing skills. With a new season upon us we're adding a few additional elements to our academic work as well as trying some different household routines. All of which calls for a shift in our schedule.
The challenge I'm facing in making a weekly schedule is that our family's current life season requires flexibility. But I think I've come up with a way to have a weekly plan and still be flexible at the same time. I call it block planning and no doubt this isn't a new organizational tool but it is a change in home management for me.
Here's how it works:
In our home there are certain activities that happen everyday, at nearly the same time. These being meals - preparing, eating and clean up.
On weekdays there are a couple other fixed activities - my morning quiet time, after breakfast chores, my one hour writing time after lunch and some kind of family time after supper. End of the day clean up, done by the kids in late afternoon is somewhat fixed but not always necessary. (You can read more how I manage house cleaning & laundry at Homemaking and Homeschooling).
In between those anchors is when everything else can happen. School, errands/groceries, playdates, house projects, bills & deskwork, farm trips and more.
My home/life management binder with inspirational cover art and quotes
At this point I want to say that when I had babies and toddlers (Celine was 3 1/2 when my third baby was born) the basic activities of meals, chores, naps (I napped almost every day for years) and some outdoor exercise with the kids was pretty much all that happened during the day. Weekly activities included playdates (for my sanity) and some errands. I grocery shopped at night and caught creative time in little bits here and there, mostly after the kid's bedtime. I feel it's important to share this since some of you are raising littles and at that stage in my life I did not even attempt to schedule my days the way I do with a 7, 9 & 11 year old.
However, even if you are in those baby raising stages I think you might be able to apply this idea of flexible blocks to your time management.
After planning for daily anchoring activities and accounting for transition time (ie: getting out the door is not a one minute thing, even with older kids) there is really only two hours left each morning and afternoon to get everything else done. This seems like such a small amount of time "to do everything else" but in truth I spend a lot of time in the kitchen and there is no way around that.
In truth, two hours is only accurate on an especially everything-works-like-clockwork day (which doesn't happen often). One and a half hours is more realistic. I've defined this 1.5 - 2 hour window as one block. With five days a week that's 10 blocks.
Next, I made a list of our weekday goals and activities (school, errands, outings and projects) keeping in mind that I had 1.5 - 2 hour block segments to work with. I assigned block values to the activities. For example:
I purposefully limited this list of tasks to less than 10 block segments. Life happens and I don't want to schedule every moment of every day.
This is where the flexibility of this planning comes in. The activities are given a block value (one full block or half) but the blocks themselves are not assigned to specific days until the beginning of each new week. And depending on the unexpected needs of the week I can juggle the blocks around but still feel like I am accomplishing what needs to be done.
At the beginning of each week I look at our monthly calendar and make note of any appointments. Ie: Last week the girls had hair cuts on Wednesday afternoon so I scheduled errands around that time.
The rest of the blocks I schedule around these fixed ones (I keep appointments to a minimum) and then plan specific activities for the open ended blocks like projects. Week by week the plan is a bit different. But overall I'm still using our days wisely to accomplish family priorities.
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This method allows me freedom and accountability. It makes it easier to say both yes and no when necessary. If you think you might like to try this organizational tool please feel free to download a copy for yourself.
This week-at-a-glance sheet doesn't give me enough room to write down daily to-do's so I made up my own daily docket, as inspired by Simple Mom.
My daily to-do sheet has just the right amount of space so I'm not too overambitious in writing lists of what I think I can accomplish. I write down only one or two priorities and these usually correspond to the blocks planned for that day.
I thought these ideas might be helpful to some of you home managers. This planning technique has been useful for me.
How do you make a weekly plan that allows for flexibility?
PS. I know when written like this my days can look deceivingly sane and simple. If only that were always the case! I decided to journal last Wednesday's comings and goings. This daily snapshot will be my next post and if nothing else it will show that even well planned days can go hay-wire.
My, it is so much FUN to see how others schedule their lives;)Mornings I try to guard for school time/music practice and early supper prep for days that we will be out later in the afternoon. Each day after lunch is a time block: Mondays-library & skating; Tuesday and Thursdays-at home school/project time and time for read-alouds; Wednesday-piano lessons/errands/appointments; Friday-project/games, swimming, visits with friends. I also have a chore schedule (usually a couple main chores/day for my kids and myself each) and my Thursday "chore" is an extra planning time which can be related to menu planning, budgeting or HS plans, for instance. We do take days off here & there for rest and projects - or just "free educational time" (or some serious bedroom cleaning for my daughters). I work HARD at staying HOME Tues and Thurs which makes life run much more peaceful for all. On the weekend during the school year I usually do some extra cooking/baking too for the upcoming week. Life never runs completely as planned, of course, but I am much happier and accomplish far more of value when at least we make the effort to plan ahead. A quote I like: A goal without a plan is just a wish.
Kika, I agree it is FUN to see how other people plan their days. Which is why i posted mine, also for posterity. I'll look back and say something like "ah... those were the good old days before we hit the busy young adult years (which I anticipate they will be, though life feels busy right now).
We often have visiting with friends etc. on Fridays also. I've found that day just works best. I hear you on bedroom cleaning for girls! I love what you say about working hard to stay home on 2 days/week. I know what you mean. I function best that way also but it does take some effort (there's always so many good things it seems I'm saying no to).
Could you please move in with me? Or I could live there, that would be ok too. You are super inspiring. I need to make use of our time way better. Great post, thanks for it!
Thanks especially for the nod to mamas with little ones--it's great to be reminded that the days given over to the park and snack time are not forever. The time for mama to be alone comes, it looks like. Phew.
Yes, yes, yes it does Kyce! I have had some response and questions from mamas with young ones and I am writing a post specifically about that time of life.
This post is really helpful, Renee! I love organizing, but I tend to become inflexible when I do. I love how you stay flexible while still using a planning tool! Very inspirational!
Hi Renee;
Thanks for this post! Getting organised is something that I seems to be doing constantly - finding the "right" system - and this post is very helpful. Is it ok to ask you what is the last category in your daily sheet? Date/ inspirations /meals / chores to do / etc.
This is a great idea - to have the blocks sorted on one sheet and then daily-to-dos on another. I think that when I write out on the same sheet (eg block planner) it becomes messy and I end up avoiding looking at it.
Thanks! Mags
On my daily sheet in this post I have:
Date
Priorities
School/Kids
Chores/To-Do
Contact: (ie: emails, phone calls to make)
On the other side is:
Inspiration (something inspiring from my morning quiet time)
Meals
Professional/Creative
Appts (appointments) - if we have to be out for a certain time.
My daily sheets change with the season. Currently, my daily list is divided into these sections:
Date
Priorities
Writing & Photography
Household
Contact
Inspiration
Meals & Kitchen
Moving/Holiday/Craft (we're on a school break right now)
Appts/Errands/Timeline
On any given day certain areas might be empty, like appts is often empty but on errand days it lists where I need to go and any specific times. Household is stuff like chores (clean toilet, organize something etc). The rest is pretty self explanatory.
Just wanted to thank you for sharing this and for inspiring myself and I'm sure loads of others. I almost NEVER comment on blog posts, but I had to let you know that this helped me so much. I have been dreaming of implementing something like this just for myself (no kiddos of my own yet), and this is exactly the motivation and model I needed. Thank you so much!
PS...as a 28-year-old disillusioned with the school system and preparing to be a mother in the next 5 years, my partner and I have all but decided that we will homeschool. In recent months, overwhelmed by my own life and ambitions, and totally run down by extended periods caring for his 7 and 10-year-old, I've wondered how I could EVER possibly pull that off. You've given me hope that it is, indeed possible. Thank you again. So much love to you and your family <3
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Kelly on Sept. 20, 2010, 7:17 p.m.
Renee, I really enjoy all your detailed schedule posts...I love reading about how other mamas structure their time as this is such a work in progress for me. I'm still in the baby-and-preschooler phase but until now I've been using a similar blocks of time plan. Except almost every block involved an outing and I'm finding now that I need much more time at home, time to take care of our home and do projects together and just be together. So things are in flux as I figure it out. Looking forward to tomorrow's post! :) Thanks -Kelly