January 29, 2011
Every Saturday morning (or Sundays if we hike on Saturday) during winter and fall I prepare baked Maine apples for breakfast. Sometimes I add frozen blueberries or raspberries also. We are still eating the raspberries from our marathon picking in early July.
Saturday mornings start slow around our home. We usually all sleep in and have a late breakfast before getting serious about the day's work. Though now with the pressure on to move in mid May there is a definite urgency to start projects earlier in the day. All our current weekend projects are house (fixing up) and move related.
Most of my day is spent in the kitchen and being support crew for the work being done. For the past couple weeks I've wanted to start the day on an inspirational note by listening to TED talks while peeling and cutting apples for breakfast. This morning I actually did so by hooking up portable speakers to Damien's computer, bringing it all in the kitchen and listening while I worked.
Last fall there was an independent TED event here in Maine. This is not surprising to me. Maine (some might say, in spite of our last election) is quite a progressive place. There are interesting people in corners all around the state and I feel very privileged to know some amazing people who are changing their communities for the better.
These three TED talks I listened to this morning are along that line. I have to say honestly these particular talks would not merit my undivided attention. Ie: I wouldn't use my very limited time these days to sit down and watch them in the evening. The ideas presented by these speakers are not new but I do need a reminder now and again about the course we need plot for a more sustainable future. Having said that, I feel these videos were worth the listen while I was doing my kitchen work.
The kids enjoying a bit of their own Saturday morning creativity
watching video footage they took of the cat (no, the laughs aren't staged)
Now let's say you truly do have twenty minutes of undivided time for some inspiration. Well then I recommend you watch Brene Brown's TED talk on vulnerability. I mentioned this video in December but it's worth a second mention because it's just that good. I know it's been around the web a lot and might be old news to some of you but watching this video encouraged me, once again, to be open and vulnerable with people even when it's scary to do so. Especially when it's scary to do so.
Like when sharing our dreams and ideals for the life we want to create for our family. Telling that story in person (bits and pieces of it have shown up here), as I have done over the past couple months, is deeply personal and leaves me feeling vulnerable and quite frankly, open to criticism. "You want what?" By the way, no one has said this out loud but I do wonder what people must think about our crazy ideals (most of which we don't even dare discuss with many people).
In the past year I have opened myself up to dream and think big in ways I have never done before. In ways I was too scared to even consider. This has been incredibly exciting but also leaves me feeling vulnerable to rejection, failure, and disapproval.
So when I watch a talk like Brown's I feel "yes, it's worth the vulnerability" because my openness to dream and share is one of the gifts I have to give. It's something I give myself, my husband, and my children. And it's something I offer to you also.
Ok wow, I wasn't expecting to go so far down that path. But there you have it. I am vulnerable and want to live my life wholeheartedly (you can watch the video for more of what that means).
As a side note Brown was the keynote speaker at the Blissdom blogging conference this past week. Too bad I couldn't have been there to hear that talk. I think it would have been very inspirational. PS. If you did go, please don't rub it in. I'm vulnerable (ha, ha!!)
Winter truly is a time for inspiration and I will be revisiting that idea in a post coming next week.
What are you inspired by these days? Any great internet audio/visual stuff you recommend for next Saturday's breakfast prep?
Not rubbing it in, I promise, but I got to see Brene and as a result had finding her TED talk on my to do list. And, here you have gone and rounded that link up for me as well as some other gems. Thank you :-)
(PS - so sorry to hear your bike was stolen)
I think after telling our family we're moving ourselves and our three young kids into a camper and then building a 20x20 house with no electricity, sewer, or furnace, I know a little about exposing vulnerabilities too! lol :0) I do enjoy inspirational talks as well, even if it isn't anything "new", it's nice to be reminded that there are other people out there who don't do something just because that's the way we've always done it. Life needs to be lived thoughtfully and fully, right? For our inspiration, if you'd call it that, we mostly listen to Alex Jones. He's hard to listen to at first because he is very head strong, but we have similar values like salvation, homeschooling, healthy eating (he's WAY against Monsanto by the way!), fiscal responsibility, and libertarianism. I don't know if you have similar beliefs regarding government and community-building, but you may find his stuff interesting. He publishes news articles and his radio show live through prisonplanet.com.
I knew you'd understand!
Actually Renee, this is what I struggle with...vulnerability. And this is why I feel like I need to continue to blog. Blogging makes me feel extremely vulnerable. I don't want to feel people who read it to be critical of my choices. However, I need to practice vulnerability. Thank you so much for the Ted talk links. Everyone should watch the Brene Brown talk!
Actually, I've been reading your blog for inspiration!! Thanks for the extra links.
Renee, I agree with the last poster....you are great inspiration! I don't have anything specific to share in the moment, but I do cruise facebook and twitter and feel lucky to have such a great community. Someone is always sharing something interesting, thought-provoking and a lot of times uplifting.
Because of my slow connection, I can't listen or watch to any online videos, but (as far as online inspiration goes) there are many blogs that inspire me daily, written by exceptional, ordinary people.
I love TED talks, so thanks for posting those. Like Renee Siff, I wait until someone recommends them instead of actively seeking them out. Also, your ideal and family values seem pretty normal to me. Maybe I live among a strange group of people ;)
I just found Brene Brown last week, and LOVED her talk on vulnerability. So needed, so on target for me, and said in a beautiful way. I've been forwarding it to friends :). I'm guessing you've seen The Story of Stuff? It's one your kids might like, worth a look if you haven't seen it.
Yes, we have seen the Story of stuff. So good. Thanks for the recommendation though.
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Renee Siff. on Jan. 29, 2011, 6:38 p.m.
That's a great idea. I always enjoy watching the occasional TED talks, but never deliberately seek them out (they're always reposted from FB or John has one playing). I did enjoy watching one a few weeks ago someone posted about Parenting Taboos. As a new mom, I enjoyed the perspective.