February 5, 2014
I love having four seasons but winter has been the most challenging for me to embrace with my whole heart.
Not as a child mind you. Winter as a child was fun.
photo credit: Becky Tougas
When you've outgrown childhood winter can become a drag. Dark nights, cold cars, and high heating bills. But I'm finding that if I surrender to the season and not fight it the fun factor goes up.
In truth, my winter fun has increased now that my children have grown past the toddler and preschool age. Nothing against young children, I loved mine dearly. But all parents know that by the time you bundle them up and spend a few minutes outdoors they are ready to come back in. Which works out to 45 minutes of clothing prep and clean up for about 10 minutes of outdoors. Such is life with littles.
As I sit here typing this my children are donning their gear, with minimal help from me, to head outdoors for an hour or so while I write. No wonder I think winter is more fun!
But seriously, enjoying winter is a choice. I'm not always good at making that choice but at least I recognize it as such. I can choose to bundle up for a winter walk or a morning of sledding with my kids or I can give in to the temptation to park my butt down in this computer chair (which I'm doing right now) and miss out on the incredible beauty of winter.
The squeaky crunch of packed snow beneath my boots.
Winter's pink, purple and orange sunset making long shadows of bare trees.
Climbing city snow mounds pretending to summit Mt. Everest.
Sledding down mountain slopes on sparkly winter weekends.
The bright red barberries contrasting the white snow.
Making music with a row of thick hanging icicles.
The beauty of winter is all around, I just need to appreciate and celebrate it, not wish it away.
Here's a few things we're doing to celebrate winter this month of February.
And I think that might be all the fun we can manage for one month. Because there still is that one big project our family is getting ready for - moving out the country in just over 3 months.
Before I know it winter will be over. But I'm not wishing it away. Too much fun to be had in the moment.
How are you celebrating winter this month?
I thought Laurent was much older than 10. Hmm. I love winter too. The hardest part is getting out the door.
Michelle, this is a repost from 2011. So all the stuff I shared in it is 3 years old. Laurent turns 13 in a couple weeks!
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Shelly Sangrey on Feb. 5, 2014, 1:45 p.m.
Thank you for a fresh perspective, since I honestly hate winter. I'm ready to move south. I've been trying to do the one outing a week thing, and it hasn't happened for weeks because of constant bad weather. It's REALLY hard to push a stroller and navigate walking little ones in the snow.
renee on Feb. 5, 2014, 2:54 p.m.
I hear you! I could never push a stroller in winter, maybe a backpack is better, or sling for a teeny one. With practice, littles get better at navigating snow.
If I hated winter, I would hate my life for 5 months of the year. That's just no way to live (smile).
Shelly Sangrey on Feb. 5, 2014, 2:59 p.m.
You know what, you're right. I'll get a backpack. I gave up on the sling because now that she's a little bigger, she screams when I put her in it.
renee on Feb. 5, 2014, 3:17 p.m.
Shelly, the other awesome thing about backpacking a kid is that it's such good exercise for mom! Carrying weight is an excellent work out - it's doing weights! We liked the Kelty brand when our kids were little.
Shelly Sangrey on Feb. 5, 2014, 3:35 p.m.
Thanks! I'll check that out!
Alaina on Feb. 6, 2014, 4:19 a.m.
What about using a sled, too? We attached a plastic bin to a sled (so our toddler can't fall out and we can turn her around to not be in the wind, and we can tuck in blankets etc) with bungee cords. We alternate walking (when the path or sidewalk is more packed down we let her out, and yes, we still pick her up from some falls at times) and then going in the sled. But an even better idea would be a combo of options walk/sled/backpack. There is no way I could use a stroller, either.
Shelly Sangrey on Feb. 6, 2014, 8:29 a.m.
That's a good idea, too!
renee on Feb. 6, 2014, 1:09 p.m.
That's a great idea Alaina.